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Very often, the picture we have about ourselves in our mind is upside down as compared to what we really are. What we think of ourselves and what others think of us are absolutely two different things. Few traits like politeness, communication skills are few characteristics we can notice of others even with a very short interaction. But few characteristics / qualities like confidence level, knowledge on a subject,
wisdom, being short tempered, impatient nature, very talkative / less talkative are few traits which are hard to judge in a small period of time.
Interestingly, we often carry a vary rosy picture about ourselves over a particular trait but others find us
total opposite!
Lets explore one such trait i.e. Aggressiveness.
The literal meaning of aggressiveness says, being more active than normal but not over active / being confident in your action.
Most of us love to be aggressive or majority of people like aggressiveness in you. Aggressiveness is a quality, essential for leaders and achievers. Aggressiveness is a quality needed for growth. Aggressive people are jump starters to a new assignment or a project; possess high energy level, confidence; have good knowledge on the subject.
A very thin line distinguishes Aggressiveness from Arrogance.
Basically a person who's arrogant possesses most of the qualities essential for being aggressive like confidence and knowledge but the sense of overbearing
self-worth or self-importance or pride makes them arrogant. Arrogance makes you discriminatory and shifts you away from others. Where aggressiveness keeps you a down to earth kind of a person; aggressiveness places you on cloud nine.
You are your best judge. Make sure that you do not cross or dissolve this thin line of distinction between aggressiveness and arrogance. Do not let your success or any other achievement get over your head and give birth to overbearing
self-worth.
Always be the light hearted, honest person you were born, who's growing in knowledge and
wisdom each moment with his feet always on the earth!
The world is yours!!
About the Author : J. Singh. The writer is BE, MBA active in the field of consultancy since 1997.
© J Singh, 2005
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